“If You Want To Change Your Life, You Have To Change Your Variables!”
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A space for rebels with a cause, nerds with big feelings, and humans doing the hard work of becoming.
Whether you’re starting a new healing chapter or rewriting your entire damn book, AbFabNerd is here to support you with tools that feel like magic and messages that feel like truth.
Absolutely Fabulous Mindfulness Tools for Healing, Self-Care & Personal Growth
Explore AbFabNerd Adult(ing) Activity Books
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Self-Love Adulting Activity Book
An interactive exploration of acceptance, values, personal progress, and intentionally creating more moments that make life feel meaningful.Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Manifest Mandatory Magical Moments
Verified Values Vetted Vigorously
Absolute Acceptance Acquired Actively
Permit Positive Personal Progress Perpetually
No perfection required.
No enlightenment prerequisite.
Just curiosity, a writing utensil, and a willingness to get to know yourself a little better.Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Awareness Adulting Activity Book
A guided journey inward designed to encourage mindful observation, thoughtful reflection, emotional awareness, balance, and a stronger understanding of the self.Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Mastering Mindfulness Manifests Multitudes
Seeking Self-Awareness Solidifies Spatial Significance
Calm Contemplation Counteracts Confusion
Balance Beckons Blossoming Belief
This book helps readers explore two foundational questions:
Who am I?
and
How do I learn to love that person intentionally?
Equal parts reflection, creativity, humor, and hands-on mindfulness practice, the Self-Awareness Adulting Activity Book offers an approachable alternative to the traditional self-help workbook.
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Empowerment Adulting Activity Book
An interactive exploration of personal agency, courage, forgiveness, emotional growth, resilience, and the freedom that can emerge when we stop allowing past experiences to dictate every future decision.
Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Forgiving Failure Facilitates Freedom
Peaceful Past Production Perspective
Fearlessly Facing Feelings Forms Fabulousness
Grateful Grieving Generates Ginormous Growth
Self-Empowerment encourages readers to examine the stories they tell themselves about failure, fear, grief, possibility, and personal power while creating space for new choices.
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Discipline Adulting Activity Book
A hands-on exploration of routines, consistency, intentional action, focus, and the seemingly ordinary daily decisions that quietly shape extraordinary long-term outcomes.
Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Discipline Determines Dominant Development
Rituals Routinely Revisited Realize Results
Discipline Directs Distracted Daydreams
Daily Deeds Dictate Directional Dominance
Self-Discipline helps readers explore the relationship between intentions and actions while developing greater awareness of the habits, rituals, distractions, and daily decisions influencing their direction.
This book explores an essential question:
What am I willing to do consistently to create it?
Growth does not require becoming an entirely different person overnight.
Sometimes it begins with one brave decision.
Then another.
Then doing the thing again tomorrow.
Empower yourself. Direct yourself. Keep moving.
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Reflection Adulting Activity Book
An interactive exploration of emotional reactions, interpersonal dynamics, projection, insecurity, conflict, and the ways unresolved experiences can influence present-day interactions.
Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Twatwaffles Tediously Transfer Trauma
Cunt-Cakes Continuously Conjure Conflict
Invading Insecurity Indiscriminately Infects Interaction
Elevated Emotions Exacerbate Everything
Self-Reflection encourages readers to look beyond the immediate story of what happened and begin exploring:
What did this activate in me?
What am I bringing into this interaction?
Is this response about the present moment, or is something older sitting at the table too?
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Sabotage Adulting Activity Book
A hands-on exploration of behaviors and thought patterns that can undermine communication, relationships, growth, emotional regulation, and personal goals.
Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Narcissists Necessitate Neverending Negotiating
Ultimatums Undermine Unanimous Understanding
Pessimistic Posturing Perpetuates Polarization
Irate Indifference Impairs Intelligence
Self-Sabotage invites readers to investigate the habits that keep repeating even after they stop being useful.
Defensiveness.
Avoidance.
Control.
Catastrophizing.
Escalation.
Rigid thinking.
Unproductive communication.
The point is not to collect evidence that you are terrible.
The point is to collect information.
Because patterns become significantly less powerful once they stop operating anonymously.
This book explores an essential question:
What could happen if I stopped automatically participating in unhealthy patterns?
Reflection identifies the pattern.
Awareness catches it in motion.
Interruption creates an opportunity for something different.
See the pattern. Question the pattern. Interrupt the pattern.
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Medicating Adulting Activity Book
An interactive exploration of numbing, avoidance, unmet needs, coping strategies, and the emotional experiences we sometimes attempt to silence rather than understand.
Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Numbing Never Navigates Needs
Numbing Never Negotiates Nicely
Numbing Never Neutralizes Nightmares
Numbing Never Nets Noble Nerds
Self-Medicating encourages readers to move beyond the immediate question:
“How do I make this feeling go away?”
and begin exploring:
“What is this feeling trying to tell me?”
Readers are invited to examine their relationship with discomfort, triggers, emotional avoidance, habits, and coping behaviors while practicing greater awareness of what may be happening underneath the urge to numb.
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
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Self-Destruction Adulting Activity Book
A deeper exploration of destructive patterns, addiction, fractured foundations, personal accountability, and the complicated relationship between past experiences and present-day behaviors.
Featured Mindfulness Mantras include:
Disembodied Demons Delay Development
Fractured Foundations Fuel Fundamental Flaws
Addiction Adores Absolute Adherence
Reflecting Responsibility Ruins Rehabilitation
Self-Destruction invites readers to examine the patterns that can emerge when pain, avoidance, habit, and consequence become tangled together.
The work is not about shame.
It is about seeing clearly enough to make another choice possible.
Readers are encouraged to explore questions such as:
What am I using this behavior to avoid?
What does this pattern cost me?
What responsibility belongs to me now, regardless of where the pattern began?
What might healing look like if I stop repeating what hurts me?
This book explores two difficult but powerful questions:
What am I trying not to feel?
and
What is continuing this pattern costing me?
Awareness creates a pause.
A pause creates a choice.
And repeated choices can begin to create a different direction.
Feel it. Face it. Choose what comes next.
Sometimes Adult(ing) Sucks. Practicing Mindfulness Doesn’t Have To.
Retail Bundles Now Available
Foundational Mindfulness
Self-Love + Self-Awareness
Know yourself. Love yourself.
Growth and Action
Self-Empowerment + Self-Discipline
Believe in yourself. Direct yourself.
Shadow Work and Pattern Interruption
Self-Reflection + Self-Sabotage
See the pattern. Question the pattern. Interrupt the pattern.
Healing and Recovery Support
Self-Medicating + Self-Destruction
Feel it. Face it. Choose what comes next.
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MAJOR ARCANA T-SHIRTS
“THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON THE QUALITY OF YOUR VARIABLES”
What Kind of Life are You Creating For Yourself?
What Variables Are You Carrying?
What Energy Do You Allow?
Do These Variables Help You Vibrate Higher?
Do These Variables Promote Self-Love?
Should You Change/Remove Some Of Your Variables?
Are you ready to embrace a year of growth, mindfulness, and intentional living? Start your journey with our FREE Self-Awareness Assessment Worksheets!
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